The Reasons Women Lose Interest in Sex. What women won't tell us.

As the midnight moon, was drifting through

The lazy sway of the trees

I saw the look in your eyes, lookin', into mine

Seeing what you wanted to see

Darlin', don't say a word, 'cause I already heard

What your body's sayin' to mine

I'm tired of fast moves

I've got a slow groove

On my mind

I want a man with a slow hand

I want a lover with an easy touch

I want somebody who will spend some time

Not come and go in a heated rush

I want somebody who will understand

When it comes to love, I want a slow hand

~Slow Hand - Song by The Pointer Sisters.

I could not understand...

How can a woman married with children never have an orgasm or no interest in sex? If you go on Google to research the matter the content writers would pin it on low libido, stress, anxiety, hormonal imbalance, body image issues, yada, yada, yada.

But what if the reason for her loss of sex is maybe because of the one she is with?

When I was working in the trades, I was an apprentice for an electrician who loved to tell me about his sexual escapades. He told me a story about a woman (who he slept with) who was involved with a man (when it came to sex) from start to finish lasted one minute. That's right! ONE MINUTE. My electrician continued the story when he got a hold of her, he opened her eyes. What she thought was normal, was not normal.

Could it be possible that the reason for the loss of sex is not a hormonal imbalance? The man in her life is just a lousy lover. Or there is no chemistry?

This author explains this problem further in a way no content writer to this date has:

Diana Richardson author of the book Slow Sex states three reasons why women lose interest in sex.

Sex becomes routine

Diana Richardson writes:

As the initial weeks and months of wonderful sexual spontaneity in a relationship span into years, and the situation settles into a routine, it is extremely common for women to feel an increasing reluctance to get involved in sex.

There is enough pressure on men these days as it is. However, we have to take the lead in this area for it is expected. You have to incorporate "the new" in your sex life:

• More Foreplay

• Mental Foreplay

• Role-playing

• Sex Games

• Try different positions

• Read books on sex

Unrealistic Expectation of Instant Sex

The author states here:

Yet woman is unavailable to man on the "instant" basis that he has been conditioned to expect. Instant sex is the reason for the existence of the oldest profession in the world--prostitution--because it represents to man the possibility of instant sex. Sex on demand, no fuss, no foreplay. I also know for a fact that when women have slow, when everything taken with ease and leisure, then women want more sex.

Done with the book. There are other reasons as well for losing the desire for sex.

She's losing her attraction for you

This guy talks about his experiences with women when he was in the best aesthetic shape of his life. And he teaches two things:

Women are as visual as men

Suppose you can get over some of his language. In that case, women are just as visual as men when it comes to physical attraction and emotional connection is preferred over money for some women, which is the next topic.

Emotional connection is preferred over money

Is it possible that social media has lied to us; money is not as important to women as some believe. In my former life as a personal trainer, I had clients who would open up to you about their lives if they trusted you. Some women have men who check all the boxes when it comes to what a provider should look like and are not physically attracted to them or he does not provide the connection they seek.

I can't help with the emotional connection; I do have a solution to the first problem:

Conclusion

We are living in a time when women are being more vocal about their needs and we as men are not listening. Pay attention here:

• The masculine is attracted to the feminine, and the feminine is attracted to the masculine. Physical attraction is important! Kill the Dad Bod and stop eating the hoagies and the butter cookies. Go the to gym!

• Chemistry is important! Get to know her, spend time with her, and nurture the relationship.

• Sex is for the woman. She cums first!

Remember the basics and have peace in your union.

C&R

Ladies is there anything I missed? Put it on the comments, we would love to know.